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I have a few copies of “Playboy” from the 1970s stashed away somewhere. One of them has a letter where a guy writes in saying, “I met this really gorgeous, sweet woman, and we were planning to get married, but she sat me down yesterday and told me that she had a sex change before she met me. Mr. Hefner, should I marry someone who used to be a man?” and the response was, “So she had a sex change, big whoop. Would you be asking this question if she’d made any other change in her life before she met you? You love the woman she is now, and that’s all that should matter. If you want kids you can adopt or something.”

I feel so conflicted right now



That awkward moment when Hugh Hefner is more trans-positive than most feminists of the same era. 

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That moment when Hugh Hefner is more transposition then most today.

Interesting.

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I have a few copies of “Playboy” from the 1970s stashed away somewhere. One of them has a letter where a guy writes in saying, “I met this really gorgeous, sweet woman, and we were planning to get married, but she sat me down yesterday and told me that she had a sex change before she met me. Mr. Hefner, should I marry someone who used to be a man?” and the response was, “So she had a sex change, big whoop. Would you be asking this question if she’d made any other change in her life before she met you? You love the woman she is now, and that’s all that should matter. If you want kids you can adopt or something.”

I feel so conflicted right now

That awkward moment when Hugh Hefner is more trans-positive than most feminists of the same era. 

omg

That moment when Hugh Hefner is more transposition then most today.

Interesting.

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Call For Papers - Older Trans Men




Trans men who come out in their 40s, 50s and 60s face different issues
than those who are transitioning earlier in life. Late Transition: Older
TransMen Speak Out is a collection of stories by men transitioning later
in life that explores many issues (health, aging, family, religion,
children/fatherhood, elder care, to name some) which are largely absent
from most transgender support systems, books, and conferences. If you
are over 40 and you have experienced difficulty in your late transition,
then you are welcome to send a story for consideration. The book will
highlight and explore these issues in their complexity and open up a
long overdue conversation about the way older trans navigate gender
transitioning and life in general. The collection will also be a
companion resource of advice and support to older transmen. Transgress
Press will be publishing the anthology.

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Greetings everyone,

I just released my third book, Show TransA nonfiction novel about sex addiction, sex work, navigating the gay/MSM scene, a trip West, dissociative identity disorder, and the struggle to find love, connection, and self-actualization as a non-binary trans person. This book is my most autobiographical (and arguably scandalous) work to date. And there are pictures. Check out my Original Plumbing interview: http://originalplumbing.com/index.php/arts-entertainment/books/item/840-how-trans-an-interview-with-elliott-deline-about-his-soon-to-be-released-book

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If you’re in the USA, please order directly from the author here: http://elliottdeline.bigcartel.com/product/show-trans

Non-USA, you can order your copy here: https://www.createspace.com/4952119

I really hope you’ll check out the book. Ebook versions will be forthcoming.  I hope that you will share the book with others and leave reviews online. Since I published and promote the book myself, every little bit helps. 

Thank you for your continued support! 

Sincerely,

Elliott

Anons

If you submit a question as Anon, there’s no way for me to “answer your question privately” if you request it, since I have no contact info and have no idea who you are. The “answer privately” option only works if I can see your URL, and then the answer goes only to you. I can only answer Anons by posting them to this blog with an answer, which is obviously public.

I got several of those and I don’t want to publicly post your personal question, but also have no way to answer you otherwise.

Gay Trans Guys

Anonymous said: Is there any ftms in northern Utah?? I can't find any....

I don’t know, probably, do any follow the blog? Reblog if you are!

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View 3002 photos and videos from Folsom Street Fair - Folsom Street - San Francisco, CA on 9/21/2014

I need to find a way to go to this next time, life is short.

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"I'm A Guy"

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Gay Trans Guys

Anonymous said: I just wanted to thank you for this blog. It makes me feel so much less alone. Are there any other blogs you know of that are specifically for gay trans guys, on or off tumblr? There are so many trans guy blogs, but so few are for those of us who are into other guys primarily or totally (I am the latter). Thanks.

I don’t really know of any other general gay trans guys blogs, but I know of many blogs by gay trans guys. Usually searching the “gay ftm” tag does a pretty good job.

And thank you so much for telling me! I’m glad.

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Gay Trans Guys

Anonymous said: hey im sorry to ask but do you know how to deal with dysphoria sorry for asking

That’s a very tough and broad question, because ways to cope with physical dysphoria and social dysphoria are different.

Here are some helpful links:

How To Cope With Gender Dysphoria on WikiHow

25 Things I Do To Make My Body Dysphoria Smaller

How Do I Deal With Dysphoria? from Neutrois Nonsense

Dysphoria and Anxiety video

These should offer some help.

Never feel bad about asking for help! Asking for help is important.

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How this cute gay trans/cis couple met

Here is another gay cis/trans couple. They have a channel, and a baby :D Check out the other videos. Anon 23

Thank you for all the submissions, Anon23!